51| Accessing the Power of Emotional Transference - David Tian (Asian Rake)

In this episode David Tian (Asian Rake) gives advice on: - How David was forced to focus on elements of himself that led him to become a "Rake" during his stay in China. - David's relationship stats, background including details on the longer time he's spent in relationships vs many other dating coaches, including a marriage and how his dating lifestyle is today. - How David ended up taking the name "The Asian Rake" which he first became well known for as an effective seducer in the year 2007. - Comparison of characters in the public eye that David sees as Rakes, versus those that Robert Greene identified when we spoke with him recently. - The natural Iranian Rake and the story of how David first came face to face with the results the Rake personality gets and got inspired to investigate it more. - Different viewpoints of what the fundamental attributes behind the Rake are - do you have to love women? is there room for any misogyny? - The dangers and anti-climax of a long seduction or build up before having sex with a girl, especially when it ends up you both ending up in bed very late at night. - More emotional aspects of your character that you may shun, but can actually work well for you with women. Love of deserts, candy and sugar and teddy bears. - The proportion of female friends that can help you develop your Rake character. - How to balance your Rake feminine side with your masculine through investment of your time in manly activities. - A strange Chinese historical story that illustrates some of the advanced mechanics of being a Rake. - How men need to learn that they are not just one person, or personality, and access the multiple dimensions beneath them. - Truth bombs: "You kind of have to be detached to get good at this.". - Where David disagrees with how Robert Greene looks at the obsessive personality of the Rake. - Blast from the past: Reminiscing on MrSex4UNYC, one of the earliest successful pickup artists GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time