72| Casual Hookups vs. Committed Relationships - Justin Lehmiller

In this episode Justin Lehmiller gives advice on: - Justin's scientific background (03:05) - Self report surveys in social studies used to assess people's sexual interests and their reliability in affecting the quality of sex research (08:05) - Verifying external sex related data to validate research (11:55) - Justin's confidence in his research results and how research studies are perceived (14:05) - Repressing aspects of your sexuality through self-control and how it affects your sexual decisions and actions in other ways related to, for example, online sexual searching, pornography, and physical intimacy (18:30) - Sexual fantasies and how much they evolve due to repression or a certain type of lifestyle (22:45) - What Justin has and is looking into in the area of sexual fantasies (24:27) - Interesting findings in types of relationships (e.g. friends with benefits) (27:20) - Secret romantic relationships: those who do it, why, the implications for the quality of the relationship, and for your own personal health and well-being (33:30) - Things that have stood out over the course of Justin's research discoveries; regarding the use of smart phone applications for matching and hooking up (38:09) - Indicators of commitment when getting into a relationship (45:30) - Mate poaching research: stealing someone else's partner (48:20) - A view on porn as a desensitizing addiction (51:03) - Recommendations for high quality advice in the casual sex area of dating, sex, and relationships (52:45) - Top recommendations to help men get results as fast as possible with women (53:27) GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time