When the Wife Says "It's My Husband's Fault Our Sex Life Isn't Better"

Have you ever experienced the theme in your marriage that "it's my spouse 's fault that my sex life isn't better?" If so, you are not alone. While never intending to think this way on purpose, many spouses find themselves thinking this exact thought.The key factor to notice here is the word "intending." MOST of our thoughts happen unintentionally, even when it comes to thoughts about intimacy, or the things we think get us "in the mood" or "out of the mood." But what d...