listener question: first alcohol free event

Listener question from Diana: She's going to her first wedding while alcohol free. You are still in stage one - the chick phase and your alcohol-free life feathers are ready to burst into growth, BUT you have a 'First' looming, and you are S*** scared about how it will go. That first could be a wedding, a flight hell getting past the airport bar, dinner with friends, alcohol-free sex, or a beach holiday - whatever it is, this tactic is for you and to be used liberally!! Enter - The Visualisation Tactic - dun dun DUNNNN (followed by drum roll!).