[029] 6 Conflict Myths: Lies Teachers Like To Tell About Confrontation

If you are the kind of person that is very nice, or if you want to make sure you don’t hurt other people’s feelings, or if you really want people to like you, chances are you dread conflict and confrontation. Ironically, by avoiding conflict and not bringing up important issues that bother you in a timely manner, you may end up hurting people, being mean, and pushing people away from you. Sooner or later, you’ll feel misunderstood, stressed, and taken for granted. Which means that over time you’ll start to feel resentful and frustrated towards others. And even if you don’t say anything it can come across in your mannerisms, micro expressions, tone, and body language which means you’ll trust people less, assume they’re trying to take advantage of you, and to be more difficult. Not only that, but you’ll also start to have the “poor me” mindset, which most people don’t find pleasant. All of this non-verbal and verbal negativity will come across and push people away from you. Find out: Why You Dread Conflict And Confrontation A Good Reason For Your Concern Of Conflict What Happens When Conflict And Confrontation Become Normal What Is Conflict And Confrontation Afterall? The 3 Types Of Conflict 6 Myths About Conflict Conflict and confrontation are bad. Conflict is caused by difficult, angry, or aggressive trouble-making people. Conflict means there’s a problem in the relationship. Time will heal the pain without the need for conflict. Confrontation is painful and overwhelming. Kind people don’t confront.   Get the full episode notes: https://assertiveway.com/29 Download the pdf freebie with 13 confrontation myths debunked and 5 steps to overcome fear of confrontation: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/29download  Sign up for our weekly newsletter: https://www.assertiveway.com/newsletter  Frustrated that people don't take you seriously? We'll help you. It is time to be heard, be respected, and get recognized. And never be fearful when you speak up again. Visit our website here to speak up without being rude.