010: Reclaim Your Sexuality with Tamica Wilder

Today we are telling a different story - one where sex, pleasure, and eroticism are not dirty words. I invite Tamica Wilder, somatic sexologist and erotic educator, to talk about her journey to pleasure and developing the passion for helping other women reclaim their own sexuality. We get deep into the harmful gaps in modern sex education, what it looks like to raise 2 boys in a sex-positive household, and the beauty and power of communication in the bedroom.  We’re diving into: Tamica’s upbringing in a sex-negative home and how her experiences with sexual abuse inform her teachings and life Why it is SO IMPORTANT to fill in the “self-gap” in sex education Releasing the narrative that pleasure is selfish (and the shifts you can make to start believing the opposite!) How the gaps in sex education can show up for overly sexualized youth Tamica’s advice for parents when dealing with the early masturbation period (hint: NO SHAME!) Why having a very awkward conversation can lead you to juicier, hotter sex! Some helpful tips for communicating your needs with your lover in bed Reclaiming our voice in the bedroom (especially the “weird” sounds!) And so much more!   Connect with Tamica: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theorgasmicmama/   Connect with me: Join my Facebook community, The Magic of Pleasure: https://www.facebook.com/groups/410214960289096 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90