Episode 233 The Mind Trap of the Notion of Fair

In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the conflict mind trap the parents find themselves in when they try to look at the parenting conflicts through the lens of Fairness. The differing perspective and the cognitive dissonance of one or both of the parents involved in the conflict creates an arena of conflict because neither one of the parents sees the situation the same. I therefore becomes important to step back and evaluate what is truly important for the child and having as a part of the inquiry the notion that the continuation of the argument has a high impact on the child as well. Enjoy You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd.  Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to:  •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personalized recommendations for lawyers and therapists •live Q&A sessions •special discounts •meditation sessions •and fresh content every month All designed to help you master high-conflict co-parenting. Start your transformation today!  https://disengage.highconflict.net  Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.” https://www.highconflict.net/booklet  Join our mailing list: Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time https://www.highconflict.net/emails For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register.