Cut the Cord & Wake the Fuxk up (Toxic Relationship Advice) #243

We’re diving into a pretty heavy topic this week – leaving toxic relationships. I get it. I’ve been down that rough road, hanging onto the wrong people for way too long. But I finally found the strength to know my value and break free from all that mess. In this episode, I’m gonna walk you through my own story, showing how I finally said enough was enough and walked away from relationships that were doing me more harm than good. In 2018, I left the last toxic relationship I was in (I had several). This one was with a girl who ridiculed my dreams and didn't believe in me. That's when it hit me – she wasn't for me. If she couldn’t support me, she wasn’t good for me. So, I ended things with her right then and there. From that moment, I've made it a rule to only surround myself with people who lift me up. Now, we're in November 2023, and I've been rocking the single life for over five years. It's been such a freeing journey. I've come to truly love who I am. And the biggest lesson I've learned is that I don’t need a partner to tell me I’m good enough – I already am! And so are you. Here's the deal – if you’re out there chasing closure in a bad relationship, you’re just chasing your tail. Closure isn't what you need. You need to look at the facts and recognize the reality, not just the empty promises. If someone’s treating you badly, showing you they don’t care, it's time to question: Why stay? Consider the bigger picture, especially if children are involved. Think about what staying in that mess teaches them. So, if you're nodding along, thinking, "That’s me," then it’s time for a change. Don’t stay stuck because it's all you’ve known. You deserve better! This week's episode is all about that: how to leave behind the toxic, the abusive, and the plain bad relationships. How to let go of the trauma that’s keeping you tied down. It’s tough, but it’s worth it. So join me, and let's talk about getting out of these unhealthy cycles and moving on to better things. Let’s dive in! It’s time to cut the cord. Key Takeaways: Intro (00:00) Check out Sunshine Amberzena (01:20) Be careful what you wish for (02:05) Confronting the fear of solitude and the unknown (05:39)  Luke's relationship rundown (08:50) When Luke started to change (25:48) Show your kids that you deserve better (30:41) What happens when you cut the cord (34:04) Wake up, people (37:33) Additional Resources: ➡️ Live Event Sydney 28th Dec 2023 “Unlock Your Greatness Conference” - - -  ➡️ Subscribe to Sunshine Amberzena – Click here for Amber jewelry and fashion accessories live auctions on YouTube - - -  🤝 To work with me, book your Brainstorm Call here 👉 Check out ⁠my website⁠ 👉 Join my ⁠Facebook Group⁠ 👉 Check out my ⁠YouTube channel⁠     - - - Reach out to me on social media: 🔹 Twitter  🔹 Instagram  🔹 Instagram podcast   🔹 Facebook   - - - 💬 To get started, DM me on Instagram with the words "I want inner peace" - - - The Luke Mind Power Podcast is an empowering show committed to helping you unlock your full potential and transform your life. Follow the podcast on your favorite app so you never miss an episode!BENEFITS DISCLAIMER: This podcast does not substitute professional medical and health advice. Luke is not a psychologist or holds any degrees from university. Luke Chlebowicz's approach and this podcast is intended for educational purposes only. We, of course, want the best results for you, and the Information provided by this podcast or our company is not a substitute for individual medical advice. ⁠🔹 ⁠TERMS OF SERVICE