#129 Friendly Ambitious Nerd World-Building - Visakan Veerasamy on Long-Orbit Friendships, Preemptive Defensiveness, "Hot Streaks," Writing A Book, Making $1000 for one copy & Negative Comments

Visakan Veerasamy is an internet creator and writer, he is passionate about the future of the internet, ideas, and how people can be bolder on their creative journeys.  His mission is to build the greatest social graph of friendly, ambitious nerds that the world has ever seen.This is our second conversation and dives much more into his current work and how he thinks about the internet. 🎥🍿 YOUTUBE: WATCH HERELinks:Twitter: @visakanvWebsite: visakanv.com Buy Introspect: On Gumroad⌛TIMESTAMPS(0:00) Audio intro(2:27) Long-orbit friendships(7:34) Can rooting for people be learned?(8:54) Preemptive defensiveness vs live and let live(12:55) Agreeing with the letter but not the spirit(14:11) The conformist culture of the US(15:53) Having a positive vision vs just being against something(20:04) Posting trajectories, long-term engagement(28:38) Trying to replace income, burnout, and learning patience(36:22) Micro-existential crises(40:07) How is Visakan making money these days?(44:31) Charging based on value, not on prestige(46:41) "A homeostatic impulse" to always make the same amount of money, limiting beliefs(52:19) Pricing books and managing your expectations(58:10) How did it feel to get $1000 for a book?(1:00:36) People Visakan is following, shoutouts(1:13:52) Understanding the scale of the Internet and having low expectations(1:20:31) Persistence and heart is all you need(1:26:25) The Internet as a spiritual practice - dealing with negative comments📕Buy Paul’s Book (Published Jan 2022): The Pathless Path📲Connect + Follow PaulTwitter: @p_millerdPaul’s Newsletter: Subscribe to BoundlessPaul’s YouTube: Subscribe🙏Further Ways To Support The Podcast:I use Transistor to host this podcast. It rocks. Launch Your HereI record high-quality video using Riverside: Sign Up HereBecome a sponsor of the Podcast / NewsletterWant to upgrade your Zoom studio? Check out Kevin Shen’s Dream Studio CourseWant to launch a course? Podia or Teachable are both greatWeb Hosting: Skystra Fast WordPress HostingHost your own community" Circle 14-day free trial 📘 GOOD WORK: LIVE! => Learn More📕 Buy Paul’s Book (50k+ Sold): The Pathless Path😁 Join Hundreds On Unconventional Paths: Pathless Path Community📲Connect + Follow PaulTwitter: @p_millerdInstagram: @pathlesspaulPaul’s Newsletter: Subscribe to Pathless (23k+ People)Paul’s YouTube: Subscribe🙏Further Ways To Support The Podcast:Accounting, Taxes, And Payroll For Your S-Corp (Ideal for $60k+ income): CollectiveLooking for alternatives to traditional health insurance in the US? Check out CrowdhealthI use Transistor to host this podcast. It rocks. Launch Yours HereI record high-quality videos using Riverside: Sign Up Here