171: Language Alchemy with Alejandra Siroka

We just have a couple more weeks of my summer hiatus, during which I’m focusing on my writing project and offering you encore editions of some of our favorite episodes. Today’s episode aired about a year ago, and it highlights the value of language and communication in determining the strength and health of our relationships. My guest shares simple mindset shifts in our language that can transform us into more conscious communicators. Join us to learn more!Alejandra Siroka is a former client of mine and a communications expert who has devoted her life to teaching how language and communication shape our lives and relationships. She is the creator of Language Alchemy, a practice that allows you to transform outdated communication patterns, access your deepest truths, and embody your capacity to show up as a mature, compassionate, and authentic human being. She helps clients learn communication techniques that help them maintain a thriving life. Alejandra combines scientific approaches with holistic methods, and she holds three master’s degrees in the fields of language, communication, and transformative leadership. In today’s conversation, she teaches us how to decondition from the power-over paradigm, how to use language to evolve, and how to connect with people with whom you disagree. She also gives her best tips for showing up authentically in your work and life. **Please see Resources below for sign-up links for the Cosmic Business Lab and the Cosmic Business Mastermind. Show Highlights: What is Language Alchemy?The power of transformative language in helping us have authentic communication with collaboration, equality, and compassion instead of domination, power, and competitionOur historical context impacts our language.Respectful micro conversations and connections are the keys in conversations of disagreement.Using communication in relationships where power dynamics exist—and why feedback sessions are valuableOur relationships are affected by our karmic ties with people (and can help determine with whom we should work)A description of the three hubs of communication: belly center, heart center, and head centerAlejandra’s spiritual practice has helped her tap into compassionate, conscious communication.Alejandra’s tips to live and communicate more authentically:Separate your agenda from your intentions.Use spontaneity and “aliveness” in communication instead of being trite and repetitive.What Alejandra’s birth chart says about her vision around communicationAlejandra’s thoughts about living and working in her purposeAlejandra’s experience as an entrepreneur at a very young ageUsing Vedic astrology in businessHear Alejandra’s answers to rapid-fire questions about helpful advice, morning routine, and what she’s reading/recommending. Who Alejandra works with and how she helps her clients with communication and relationshipsResources:Connect with Alejandra Siroka: Website, Language Alchemy Podcast, Instagram, and FacebookBooks mentioned by Alejandra: The Song of the Bird by Anthony De Mello